bdsm Archives - Coachella Valley Independent

Savage Love: Should I Message a Dom Who Once Took Advantage of My Inexperience?

by Dan Savage June 15th, 2022June 14th, 2022

This week, Dan answers questions about an unscrupulous Dom, appropriate pronouns and the meaning of bisexual.

Savage Love: Could Engaging in ‘Storage’ Play With My Husband Accidentally Kill Him?

by Dan Savage April 20th, 2022April 18th, 2022

Savage Love: How Can I Be a Good Gay Uncle to My 15-Year-Old Gay, Submissive Nephew?

by Dan Savage February 23rd, 2022February 22nd, 2022

Savage Love: After I Tested Positive for COVID-19, My Boyfriend Said I Should Isolate—and That He Planned to See His Family

by Dan Savage January 5th, 2022January 5th, 2022

Savage Love: Should a Man With a Micro-Penis Disclose That Before He Gets Intimate With Someone?

by Dan Savage August 25th, 2021August 25th, 2021

Savage Love: Leftover Questions and Answers From the Livestream With Mistress Matisse

by Dan Savage March 24th, 2021March 23rd, 2021

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Savage Love: How Do I Meet Someone Who Is Into My Kink—and Wants a Relationship?

by Dan Savage November 18th, 2020December 16th, 2020

Joe Newton

Savage Love: I Identify as a Lesbian, but I’m Interested in a Male Friend/Co-worker Being My Pandemic Sex Buddy

by Dan Savage July 29th, 2020December 16th, 2020

Savage Love: My Boyfriend Took Off a Condom During Sex Without Telling Me, and He’s Remorseful; Should I Forgive Him?

by Dan Savage August 7th, 2019December 16th, 2020

Savage Love: I Love My Husband, but Our Sex Life Is Boring, and I Recently Discovered BDSM, but He’s Not Interested; What Shall I Do?

by Dan Savage July 31st, 2019December 16th, 2020

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