Who knows how many couples have fallen in love after meeting at Coachella?
For example, Breaking Bad star Aaron Paul met his wife at Coachella. That’s where Sean Lennon and Charlotte Kemp Muhl met, too—a meeting that led not only to romance, but to the birth of their band, Ghost of a Saber Tooth Tiger.
“We met here 10 years ago by the fountain in the VIP tent,” said Lennon after their Coachella performance on Friday, April 17. “We didn’t start dating right away, but that’s when we became friends. We met through mutual friends. This festival used to be really relaxed, and it was just a friendlier vibe.”
“There was definitely less people back then, and this was sort of a new festival,” she said. “It sort of felt like being in the wilderness in the desert, running into a stranger by a fountain in the desert. It felt very magical. Now it’s such a scene.”
Lennon and Muhl come from very different backgrounds. Lennon’s father, John Lennon, and his mother, Yoko Ono, defined hippie Bohemian life in New York City. Muhl’s family comes from Atlanta.
“Oddly, we have very similar politics and beliefs,” Muhl said. “I think opposite sides of the spectrum tend to meet in the middle. Our families still haven’t really met.”
Putting a band together as a couple can either strengthen a relationship or make it turbulent. However, both Lennon and Muhl said it’s working for them.
“At first, we started the band because we felt like we wouldn’t be able to have a relationship if we didn’t have some project together. She was really busy, and I was doing my solo project,” Lennon said. “It was sort of a solution for us not getting to see each other enough. We didn’t know it was going to be as serious as it is now; back then, it was just sort of a hobby.”
Muhl conceded there are challenges.
“It’s definitely difficult to collaborate with your lover,” she said. “Most bands don’t stay together for more than a couple of albums, and they break up.”
Lennon said his approach to making music is easy-going and just comes naturally.
“In terms of genres, I feel like genres were more relevant in the ’70s and ’80s, and now they’re less relevant,” he said. “I don’t even really think in terms of genres when we make music. I believe in making chords, melodies and lyrics we think are cool, but we’re not thinking of whether it’s reggae or country.”
For Muhl, her modeling career sometimes puts restrictions on her.
“It’s a conflict of interest,” Muhl said. “It’s not just in terms of time. My main contract, Maybelline, is more lenient and supportive of me touring, but there are a lot of conflicts. Right after this, I have to immediately fly to New York to shoot for Maybelline. It’s also a conflict of interest in terms of personal image. I can’t do anything too controversial, per se, so I can’t get that Mike Tyson face tattoo I want, or make that snuff film.
“I don’t make any money from music, so I have to model.”