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Savage Love: After My Wife Said She No Longer Wanted to Do Certain Things, She Had an Affair and Did Those Things; What Should I Do?

I found your column after a Google search. I saw your e-mail address at the bottom and was hoping for some insight. My issue is this: Two years into our 23-year marriage, my wife declared that she didn’t want to kiss me or perform oral on me. Several years ago, she had an affair and […]

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